Jared from Sacramento says that his wife wants more romance, but when he asks her what she wants, she says that it isn’t romantic if she has to tell him what to do.

Well Jared, you’re not the only person who has this problem. Whether it is romance, housework or earning money, nearly every couple has disagreements on the right amount of something in their marriage. There are many different marriage types; each one is neither better nor worse than the other. I’m sure you know what being romantic includes, but you may not know how to put romance back into your relationship if it has been missing for a while. You can’t go wrong with a warm smile, a dinner at her favorite restaurant, a love note or taking the kids out of her hair for a bit. If you listen to your wife, she’ll probably give you more than enough hints on what she likes. Just don’t shoot down what she says before you consider it.