March 18, 2010
Friendship in marriage
there is only one thing that truly counts and that is friendship. Friendship isn't easy to maintain in marriage, for many reasons. There's a lot of pressure. There's almost too much knowledge of one another and your habits. There's financial pressures that other kinds of friendships don't have to endure We have health issues… self confidence issues… all kinds of other things come up in life Betrayals, pain, disappointments This is why in any relationship you have to know how to communicate well Relationship communication isn't like other types of communication… It's different and requires different skills. That's why I made this for you Communication Secrets http://www.NowYouCanCommunicate.com You can become friends again, also lovers using what you discover in there – Dr. Max
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February 27, 2010
How to Win the Lottery (Personal)
Have you ever said, “if I only would win the lottery, my problems would be solved”?
We all have, haven’t we?
Well I’d be lying to you if I claimed to have a method to win the actual lottery.
Plus the statistics show that people who do win the lottery are almost all deeply unhappy and
broker after a short period of time… often like 18 months.
Let’s get real.
I have something for you even better.
How about an endlessly happy relationship?
How about a great marriage?
For the rest of your life… sound good?
Well, there’s a way to win that lottery.
How can you get in?
Learn how to communicate.
If you can’t communicate, you’ll never win the relationship lottery.
If you can, winning the relationship lottery is pretty easy.
You only need 12 secret relationship communication techniques.
Here’s the relationship lottery ticket:
To Your Great Relationship,
Dr. Max Vogt
February 24, 2010
Is Your Relationship Full of Disappointments?
If you still believe in relationships but feel hurt and skeptical, check out this email from a reader
“Dr. Max
I still love my husband, but he’s not the man I married ten years ago. He used to be fun. We talked together all the time and seemed to be always on the same wave length.
We were always touching each other and couldn’t seem to get enough of each other. Now he’s absorbed in his work and seems completely cut off and unavailable. What do I do, I’m so disappointed?
Thanks, I hope you can help, Ellyn”
You know what Ellyn? What you are describing is what every couple goes through sooner or later.
Everyone goes through the natural stage of disappointment and change. (continued)
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February 23, 2010
Open Letter To Those Who Feel Marriage Isn’t That Important
http://www.nowyoucancommunicate.com “I will help.” – Dr. Max Marriage counseling, marriage help, marriage communication, love sex and marriage, affairs, in-law problems, stop your divorce, I will help More on Open Letter To Those Who Feel Marriage Isn’t That Important
February 22, 2010
Soul Mate: Is There One Out There For You?
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February 16, 2010
Marriage Communication: Jenna Hates Chick Flicks (for now)
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To give yourself and your spouse an unforgettable Valentine’s gift with far-reaching implications, follow these ten steps. But the positive effect of these tips on your marriage can be enjoyed year round and valentine’s s Day candy is soon gone.
The best and most valuable gifts are often not material ones. Energy can give one of the most precious gifts possible – an improved, satisfying marriage while many spouses focus on Valentine’s Day gifts such as jewelry or candy, spouses who are willing to invest the time.
This marriage enriching gift will still be appreciated and enjoyed and long after the romantic card is tucked away and the box of candy is empty. Follow these ten steps to give yourself and your spouse an unforgettable Valentine’s Day gift:
1. Direct your energy into becoming the kind of marriage partner you would like to have. It’s easy to criticize a spouse for not being perfect while we overlook our own imperfections.
2. Focus on how you need to change in order to be a better partner. The only person you can ultimately change is yourself.
3. For your own actions accept responsibility. You take a giant leap forward in growth the day you can say, I’m sorry for my actions instead of rationalizing and offering excuses.
4. Minimize Resentment and blame. They are toxic and can poison your marriage and your life.
5. Practice forgiveness, not to let your partner off the hook, but because you want to move forward without carrying the weight of past hurts.
6. Begin taking action and break your marriage goals down into small steps. Itíll be easier to continue moving forward when you start seeing progress.
7. “Courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference” – adopt the philosophy expressed in the Serenity Prayer: God, grant me serenity to accept what I cannot change.
8. And give instead of keeping tabs about who is doing the most or making the greatest effort in your marriage and focus on what you can do.
9) Strive for balance in your own life between family, friends, work, sports, hobbies, recreation, and other interests. Then you won’t be as likely to obsess about the imperfections in your partner.
10) Reward and praise yourself often for hanging in there in a challenging situation. You deserve it!
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January 26, 2010
Marriage Communication: What the Bleep Are We Arguing Aboout?
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“Research shows that ten minutes into an argument 90% of couples can’t even remember what the argument was about” People say “We just can’t communicate, but it cuts more deeply than that…
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