Most people think of "faithfulness" in marriage as sexual faithfulness.

Granted, an affair can be devastating to a marriage.

But there are other forms of unfaithfulness you may not be considering.

Over time they can be just as destructive on a marriage.

An affair is like a sledgehammer, but lots of seemingly minor disloyalties can do just as much damage.

Like a Chinese Water Torture things can erode.

Let me mention one here, which is talking to your friends about your relationship.

Now you'd think that might be healthy.

It isn't.

I know, you think it helps.

It doesn't.

The problem is that your friend supports your way of thinking.

You train your friends.

Meantime you are talking behind your spouse's back.

That's bad.

And the reason you do it is because you think you can't communicate with your spouse.

You're right, you can't.

It's better to learn how to communicate and stop being unfaithful to your spouse by talking behind his or her back.

That's why I made this

For you

http://www.NowYouCanCommunicate.com

"Live Well, Do Well and Be Well

Dr. Max

(that's my new salutation I learned from an old dude I sat next to yesterday outside the fitting rooms while our wives were in trying on clothes… he was a very wise and seasoned old guy of probably 88 years old)

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