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What have you done for me lately? (Marriage Advice)

Dr. Max Vogt — Thu, 12 May 2011 19:59:14 +0000

marriage advice for the sad

Janet Jackson sings:

I never ask for more than I deserveYou know it’s the truth

You seem to think you’re God’s gift to this earth

I’m tellin’ you… no way.

You ought to be thankful for the little things

But little things are all you seem to give

You’re always puttin’ off what we could do today

Soap opera says you’ve got one life to live

Who’s right who’s wrong?

ohhhh, what have you done for me lately?

Good question…But it needs to be turned around!

What you should be asking is…

What have I done for YOU lately?

Here’s something you can do that will really make a difference

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Can you heal old marriage wounds?

Dr. Max Vogt — Wed, 26 Jan 2011 23:17:46 +0000

Most long term marriages carry scars.

At one time or another over the years, somebody felt betrayed.

It just happens.

It can be the result of affairs.

It might because of disagreements.

It might be because of money losses, parenting differences, in-law troubles.

And it might be because you feel your partner isn't who they claimed to be.

You may feel let down, disappointed.

Can you heal those old wounds?

The answer is NO.

You cannot heal them.

Your partner cannot heal them.

Something greater than you is needed.

There is something beyond what we usually call "forgiveness."

Something much deeper.

Something much better than "healing old wounds."

Something which heals far more deeply.

I'll tell you about it in this presentation

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To your great relationship future,

Dr. Max

P.S. Dramatic breakthroughs happen. I hear about them every day.

Some call them miracles. I call it good science:

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Are you still focusing on problems in your marriage?

Dr. Max Vogt — Wed, 19 Jan 2011 15:04:45 +0000

The main reason you don't solve "marriage problems" is because you focus on problems.

Let me head you off.

The answer's not what you think.

Some people say you should foc us on "solutions" instead.

Not really.

That is still focusing on "problems."

Even if you're trying to "solve" them.

The Science of Happy Marriage states that problems beget problems.

When you focus on anything, that's what you tend to see.

When you buy a blue car, you notice there are a lot of them around.

When you buy a new pair of shoes, all of a sudden everyone's wearing them.

It's just because you noticed.

When you focus on anything you tend to block other things out.

Energy flows where the attention goes.

There is a much better way to be happy in your marriage.

It's called the Prescribed Way.

It gets you out of the "problems" mindset and moves you quickly to happiness in marriage.

It's brand new.

I took all my other 12 programs down because THIS is the answer to marriage happiness.

There's nothing else like it.

Go here

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The sooner you change direction, the sooner you'll find the real answers.

To your great relationship future,

Dr. Max

Marriage Danger Signs Which You Must Pay Attention to Now

Dr. Max Vogt — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 06:18:35 +0000

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Is Your Marriage in Danger?

Many couples need guidance in identifying the specific problems they can tackle in improving their marriages or relationships.

You might feel that "something is wrong" or something hurts or doesn’t feel right, but you can’t exactly put your finger on it.

It can frequently be helpful to have something like a "danger signs" chart (like used in helping people diagnose cancer or other disorders). This kind of "chart" can help you pinpoint areas of pain or discomfort… and thus help know where to put your focus.

Also, you might wonder whether you should just "ignore it and it will go away…" and could use some help in identifying areas or "danger signs" that are really significant (and shouldn’t just "be ignored"). continued

Dr. Max Vogt

Marriage Communication: What the Bleep Are We Arguing Aboout?

Dr. Max Vogt — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 03:57:32 +0000

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Ever get into the middle of one of those arguments with you partner and you can’t even remember what you were fighting about?

Well there’s a great reason for why that happens.

It has to do with a trigger that goes off in your brain when you draw certain conclusions from what you are hearing.

You have to manage that trigger.

How are you going to manage it if you don’t even know it’s there?

It’s like a loaded gun and you have to unload it and then for extra measure put the safety on.

Anna and Rick used to find themselves in that spot frequently.

They felt that trigger go off and then felt they couldn’t help it, like it became inevitable that they would fight.

They’d be fighting and each wondering, why the bleep are we doing this?

And finally what the bleep are we even arguing about?

But there they were all over again.

They loved each other but there they were once again going at each other.

The relationship was deteriorating almost on a daily basis.

Until I showed them the "Refocusing" technique.

They both burst out laughing… "that’s us!" they said.

Now they really don’t argue at all.

Because they have this and the other 12 techniques, they have a brand new relationship.

Even though they’ve been together 22 years, they say it’s "like a brand new marriage."

That’s because now they can communicate.

They didn’t go to a therapist

They just used this course: Now You Can Communicate