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Tired or bored of being married?

Dr. Max Vogt — Sat, 14 May 2011 21:45:41 +0000

Very few people will admit it, even to themselves.

So just between you and me, are you?

Are you tired or bored of being married?

Are you just politely "putting up with it" because it's the right thing to do?

Maybe the most convenient thing to do.

So let me say right away… there's nothing wrong with that.

Is there?

It's really your call.

It depends on whether you believe for… or hope for… something much better.

Your marriage relationship CAN be a lot better, you know.

You might not believe it, but it's true.

Thousands now have great marriages who never thought they could.

How?

They changed the way they think.

They changed the way they felt.

They changed the way they acted.

So it's up to you.

Same old humdrum… or something new.

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- Dr. Max

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Marriage Counseling for Infidelity

Dr. Max Vogt — Tue, 26 Apr 2011 18:23:36 +0000

From time to time I like to include posts from other sources, bloggers or news sources I think are important. Here are a few I've been looking at recently. Couple of experts and then a person going through the fallout of infidelity after a year. What would you advise?

Infidelity Expert Says Happy Husbands Cheat Too | The Houston Exponent

In an infidelity study published earlier this year in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 75% of the cheating husbands who were questioned, said they did NOT have “lots of marital problems” prior to their affair. …

Publish Date: 04/15/2011 9:54

http://www.houstonexponent.com/infidelity-expert-says-happy-husbands-cheat-too/

Challenges Dealing With Infidelity — After-The-Affair

He practices marriage counseling in Portland, OR at the Portland Couples Counseling Center. http://www.marriage-and-relationship-counseling.com/marriage-counseling-portland-oregon.html. For information about how to choose a Relationship …

Publish Date: 04/18/2011 18:25

http://after-the-affair.info/challenges-dealing-with-infidelity

Almost a year : Where am I? – Talk About Marriage

Coping with Infidelity Relationship recovery from the destructiveness of infidelity. …. Planning a conversation with some else to talk through marriage issues or any issues would be "financially stupid" according to her. As much as I would like her to get rid of some of her stress and then have her come to a realization of "I want to be with him, I can't believe I almost lost him. ….. Get The Family & Marriage Counseling Directory Help Guide via Email: …

Publish Date: 04/25/2011 9:10

http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/24662-almost-year-where-am-i.html

For more information about how to THRIVE after an affair, take a look at this Suriviving After An Affair.

Take care,

Dr. Max

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Why is our culture against marriage?

Dr. Max Vogt — Fri, 04 Feb 2011 14:54:40 +0000

Why is our culture against marriage?

It might seem odd to say that our culture is against marriage.

But the problem is not "getting married," it's staying married.

No one ever plans for what will happen AFTER the honeymoon.

The "bridal business" is insanely lucrative.

I know a man who makes over 6 million dollars a year selling… wedding favors.

Yes, those little trinkets people give out at weddings.

No, he doesn't make them, he doesn't even see them, his company just distributes them.

Check out the number of bridal/bride magazines online, just put in a search.

Have you seen the prices of even a moderately priced wedding these days?

Wedding planners – now there is another lucrative field.

But why aren't there marriage planners?

I don't mean problem solvers, like marriage counselors, relationship advice givers, etc.

They come on to the scene after there's already serious trouble.

And usually too late.

And usually without any real tools to do the job.

It's because these folks – God bless them – don't know HOW to plan a marriage.

Wouldn't it be a good idea to plan out the marriage in advance?

Heck for the fee of a modeately priced wedding, I'd fly to anywhere in the world to make sure your marriage was deeply happy for the rest of your life together.

Or even at this point in your marriage I'd still make the same deal. :-)

Not necessary though, just follow the Prescribed Way.

Your happiness in marriage is already planned out.

All you have to do is follow the plan.

Here's where you start

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

- Dr. Max

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The Dance of Closeness and Separateness In Your Marriage

Dr. Max Vogt — Thu, 03 Feb 2011 15:10:14 +0000

If you've been married for 6 months or more you've discovered something.

You and your partner have a little bit different "dancing" styles.

No I don't mean out at the club

Well maybe that too.

But I mean in terms of being close and taking some distance.

You feel like being close and (let's just say he for now) he feels like being separate.

Then he feels like being close and you feel like being distant.

Now you may have made the wrong conclusion.

Happens all the time.

You may have concluded "men only want to be close when they want sex."

Or you may have conluded "women only want to be close when they want cuddling."

Or something like that. Let's not spend too much time coming up with examples,

Remember though… Forest and not trees.

Don't jump to "problems."

Don't think "we're incompatible after all."

Instead think this:

It takes two to tango.

You are different from each other… a bit.

Not as much as you think.

You both want the same things.

You both want Relationship.

Just in slightly different ways and at slightly different volumes and slightly different times.

All I'm saying is don't jump to conclusions.

Relax, take a deep breath, and realize that your marriage, the core of your relationship is what counts.

Use what we talk about as the Creative Attitude.

Talk about it.

The minute you start "competing" it's game over.

The dance won't be a "tango," it will be a "tangle."

Slow down a bit. Take it easy.

People have different ways of dancing.

Many ways of dancing is what makes the world interesting.

I'll show you how to answer ALL these questions the right way… the permanently enjoyable way.

Go here:

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

- Dr. Max

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(SALE ENDS TONIGHT AT MIDNIGHT) It’s almost like I’m paying you to fix your marriage!

Dr. Max Vogt — Tue, 01 Feb 2011 17:29:16 +0000

Sale ends tonight at midnight EST U.S. Time (NO EXCEPTIONS)

Read this carefully. A couple people bought this at full price yesterday.

Don't do that, this is a sale to help you out.

It's almost like I'm paying you to fix your marriage.
As a special for my readers only, I'm holding a sale on

The Science of Happy Marriage complete course.

Half off until midnight EST Tuesday Feb 4, 2011.

That will give you 10 days to fix your marriage before Valentines Day.

Plenty of time to make a major difference.

Every day I get two kinds of emails from my readers.

The first kind is people asking desperately for help in their marriage.

I find they are almost all asking for the wrong things.

If they will focus on the right things, they'll see immediate improvement.

IMMEDIATE.

I send them back to watch this presentation

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/3index.html

The second kind of email I get is people calling me a "miracle worker."

They are referring to The Science of Happy Marriage, of course, not to me.

Only God works miracles.

I just tell you about how to fix your marriage.

The right way, the permanent way.

Now some people have been asking for a discount because of the economy.

And because their jobs are shaky or they've lost them.

If that's you, I'm very sorry.

But beyond sorry I'm doing something about it.

That's to give you a massive discount on the only marriage and relationship course you'll ever need.

So here's what you do.

First, go to this url if you haven't seen the video and watch it.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/3index.html

DO NOT buy off of that link unless you want to pay full price (if so, thank you!)

You'll see that the regular price is $197 for this amazing, complete course, which includes 6 full months of personalized coaching messages!

But I'm giving you 50% off or $98.50 off.

Go to this page, which will ONLY be available until Tuesday 4 February at midnight.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/valentine

This is the only course you'll ever need and it's a way to completely and permanently solve your marriage problems and create a happy marriage, no matter who you are.

I charge $200 an hour for marrriage counseling, so you're paying for about 28 minutes of time in my office, but getting a lifetime of help from me on your marriage.

Because of this special price.

Now go get it, because I promise you that at midnight February 4, 2011 EST, the page is disappearing.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/valentine

- Dr. Max

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It’s almost like I’m paying you to fix your marriage (ends tomorrow!)

Dr. Max Vogt — Tue, 01 Feb 2011 00:22:42 +0000

this ends Tuesday night at midnight EST (U.S.)

It's almost like I'm paying you to fix your marriage.

As a special for my readers only, I'm holding a sale on

The Science of Happy Marriage complete course.

Half off until midnight EST Tuesday Feb 4, 2011.

That will give you 10 days to fix your marriage before Valentines Day.

Plenty of time to make a major difference.

Every day I get two kinds of emails from my readers.

The first kind is people asking desperately for help in their marriage.

I find they are almost all asking for the wrong things.

If they will focus on the right things, they'll see immediate improvement.

IMMEDIATE.

I send them back to watch this presentation

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/3index.html

The second kind of email I get is people calling me a "miracle worker."

They are referring to The Science of Happy Marriage, of course, not to me.

Only God works miracles.

I just tell you about how to fix your marriage.

The right way, the permanent way.

Now some people have been asking for a discount because of the economy.

And because their jobs are shaky or they've lost them.

If that's you, I'm very sorry.

But beyond sorry I'm doing something about it.

That's to give you a massive discount on the only marriage and relationship course you'll ever need.

So here's what you do.

First, go to this url if you haven't seen the video and watch it.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/3index.html

DO NOT buy off of that link unless you want to pay full price (if so, thank you!)

You'll see that the regular price is $197 for this amazing, complete course, which includes 6 full months of personalized coaching messages!

But I'm giving you 50% off or $98.50 off.

Go to this page, which will ONLY be available until Tuesday 4 February at midnight.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/valentine

This is the only course you'll ever need and it's a way to completely and permanently solve your marriage problems and create a happy marriage, no matter who you are.

I charge $200 an hour for marrriage counseling, so you're paying for about 28 minutes of time in my office, but getting a lifetime of help from me on your marriage.

Because of this special price.

Now go get it, because I promise you that at midnight February 4, 2011 EST, the page is disappearing.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/valentine

- Dr. Max

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Valentine Gift: $98.50 off for you (48 hours only) 50% discount

Dr. Max Vogt — Sun, 30 Jan 2011 19:12:42 +0000

It's almost like I'm paying you to fix your marriage.

As a special for my readers only, I'm holding a sale on

The Science of Happy Marriage complete course.

Half off until midnight EST Tuesday Feb 4, 2011.

That will give you 10 days to fix your marriage before Valentines Day.

Plenty of time to make a major difference.

Every day I get two kinds of emails from my readers.

The first kind is people asking desperately for help in their marriage.

I find they are almost all asking for the wrong things.

If they will focus on the right things, they'll see immediate improvement.

IMMEDIATE.

I send them back to watch this presentation

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/3index.html

The second kind of email I get is people calling me a "miracle worker."

They are referring to The Science of Happy Marriage, of course, not to me.

Only God works miracles.

I just tell you about how to fix your marriage.

The right way, the permanent way.

Now some people have been asking for a discount because of the economy.

And because their jobs are shaky or they've lost them.

If that's you, I'm very sorry.

But beyond sorry I'm doing something about it.

That's to give you a massive discount on the only marriage and relationship course you'll ever need.

So here's what you do.

First, go to this url if you haven't seen the video and watch it.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/3index.html

DO NOT buy off of that link unless you want to pay full price (if so, thank you!)

You'll see that the regular price is $197 for this amazing, complete course, which includes 6 full months of personalized coaching messages!

But I'm giving you 50% off or $98.50 off.

Go to this page, which will ONLY be available until Tuesday 4 February at midnight.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/valentine

This is the only course you'll ever need and it's a way to completely and permanently solve your marriage problems and create a happy marriage, no matter who you are.

I charge $200 an hour for marrriage counseling, so you're paying for about 28 minutes of time in my office, but getting a lifetime of help from me on your marriage.

Because of this special price.

Now go get it, because I promise you that at midnight February 4, 2011 EST, the page is disappearing.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/valentine

- Dr. Max

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Have to stand on your head to get noticed by your partner?

Dr. Max Vogt — Thu, 27 Jan 2011 23:19:58 +0000

Sometimes it seems like your partner hardly notices you.

After all you've done for him.

After the ways you've been there for him, done things for him.

The ways you've gone out of your way to be available.

The way you always think of the little things that make life run smoothly.

The tasks and chores you do that no one notices.

The birthdays and anniversaries and other holidays only you seem to remember.

The connections with relatives you maintain.

The family you hold together with love and caring.

Couldn't he just occasionally show you some true appreciation?

You don't ask much, just a little consideration now and then.

When he does show warmth, it always turns to sex.

Couldn't he just have a nice warm conversation, you hold each other?

Is he deaf, dumb and blind when it comes to relationship?

If these are the ways you feel, you are not alone.

However, all of the ways you've ever thought of to "make things different" will fail.

It's not your fault.

But you are on the wrong path.

And no one else will set you on the right one.

All of the things MOST people – incuding counselors, pastors and advice givers – have ever thought of will fail.

It's not their fault either.

They haven't heard this presentation yet.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

Once they do they'll know it's time for a course correction.

You'll get it.

Things can be brand new in your marriage.

Not doing the things you've always done and been taught to do, but doing things a new way.

The Science of Happy Marriage Way.

To your great relationship future,

Dr. Max

P.S. No one else is talking about this yet. Why not? They don't know about it.

Soon everyone will, but you heard it here first.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/

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Stop Trying to “Fix” Your Marriage (The Video)

Dr. Max Vogt — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 15:31:45 +0000

Marriage counselors and relationship advice givers are well meaning good people, but…

- Dr. Max

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

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Stop trying to “fix” your marriage

Dr. Max Vogt — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 14:49:14 +0000

Marriage counselors and relationship advice givers are good people.

I've known quite a few of them over the years of my practice.

They are well-meaning and sometimes their advice can help… temporarily.

But almost without exception they are caught in the same trap you are.

They are trying to help you "solve problems."

Like there was something "mechanical" wrong with you that could be fixed.

You tell them there's this or that problem and they try to help you get a solution:

"We just can't communicate anymore."

"He never tells me his feelings."

"She doesn't want sex."

And then the counselor goes to work to try to help you fix it.

I've got bad news for you.

When you focus on a problem you make things worse.

The counselor gets your husband to speak up about his feelings.

You feel better.

You think this is progress.

He feels worse, and now he feels resentful and trapped.

I can give you examples until the cows come home, but they all turn out the same.

You try to fix one problem, ten come up.

There's a better way.

It's called the Science of Happy Marriage

You can learn about it here in this presentation.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/

To your great relationship future,

Dr. Max

P.S. People all over the world are discovering a completely new and differrent way.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

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