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Open Letter To Those Who Feel Marriage Isn’t That Important

admin — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 22:01:37 +0000

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A lot of people think they can "slide" on their marriage.

They think that problems will just "eventually go away" or "after the kids are gone things will be better" or "If it gets too bad, I’ll just leave and meet someone new."

Here’s a dose of reality… continued

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Soul Mate: Is There One Out There For You?

admin — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 23:19:05 +0000

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It’s a common enough thought — I just chose the wrong person for a partner, and if given a chance, I will choose better (I hope) next time. I heard it just yesterday in the checkout stand at the grocery store,,, continued

Marriage Danger Signs Which You Must Pay Attention to Now

admin — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 06:18:35 +0000

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Is Your Marriage in Danger?

Many couples need guidance in identifying the specific problems they can tackle in improving their marriages or relationships.

You might feel that "something is wrong" or something hurts or doesn’t feel right, but you can’t exactly put your finger on it.

It can frequently be helpful to have something like a "danger signs" chart (like used in helping people diagnose cancer or other disorders). This kind of "chart" can help you pinpoint areas of pain or discomfort… and thus help know where to put your focus.

Also, you might wonder whether you should just "ignore it and it will go away…" and could use some help in identifying areas or "danger signs" that are really significant (and shouldn’t just "be ignored"). continued

Marriage Communication: Jenna Hates Chick Flicks (for now)

admin — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 03:40:29 +0000

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Jenna hates "girl movies"

Hi, this is Dr. Max, marriage counselor and bestselling author.

One of my readers, Jenna, wrote me that she can’t stand watching "chick flicks" anymore.

Used to love them.

She won’t even go out with her friends to see any

See, all that talk about love makes her feel bad.

All that yearning for love makes her sick to her stomach.

It makes her feel like she has a hole in her stomach that can’t be filled.

She is in a relationship… with the man she once felt blind love for.

Where did it go?

She’s married, but feels complete separation from Rob, her husband.

It’s not that she hates him or anything like that.

She actually likes him.

But as she says, it’s ironic.

They are in the same house, but it’s like they are strangers.

Marriage just isn’t what she hoped it would be.

She dreamed of closeness and having a soul mate.

Meanwhile Rob feels the same way.

He doesn’t know who this person is he’s married to.

They say it’s like they are roommates.

They don’t fight.

They just don’t really talk.

Yes, they function and get the kids to school and pay bills.

But there’s a void there,

Why?

Because they don’t know how to communicate.

They just now got my course, which is why I know them. They both wrote me.

They are hopeful and they should be

They have some big positive surprises coming.

Once they know some simple skills of communication, they’ll notice thawing.

They’ll find their love again.

I’ve seen it happen over and over again because of

http://www.NowYouCanCommunicate.com

This is the course that is using simple videos to change peoples’ relationships.

Dr. Max

Go there and I’ll give you my very best technique for FREE right now

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For Spouses Who Want to Improve Their Marriage here are 10 Valentines Day Tips.

admin — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 15:11:58 +0000

To give yourself and your spouse an unforgettable Valentine’s gift with far-reaching implications, follow these ten steps. But the positive effect of these tips on your marriage can be enjoyed year round and valentine’s s Day candy is soon gone.

The best and most valuable gifts are often not material ones. Energy can give one of the most precious gifts possible – an improved, satisfying marriage while many spouses focus on Valentine’s Day gifts such as jewelry or candy, spouses who are willing to invest the time.

This marriage enriching gift will still be appreciated and enjoyed and long after the romantic card is tucked away and the box of candy is empty. Follow these ten steps to give yourself and your spouse an unforgettable Valentine’s Day gift:

1. Direct your energy into becoming the kind of marriage partner you would like to have. It’s easy to criticize a spouse for not being perfect while we overlook our own imperfections.

2. Focus on how you need to change in order to be a better partner. The only person you can ultimately change is yourself.

3. For your own actions accept responsibility. You take a giant leap forward in growth the day you can say, I’m sorry for my actions instead of rationalizing and offering excuses.

4. Minimize Resentment and blame. They are toxic and can poison your marriage and your life.

5. Practice forgiveness, not to let your partner off the hook, but because you want to move forward without carrying the weight of past hurts.

6. Begin taking action and break your marriage goals down into small steps. It√≠ll be easier to continue moving forward when you start seeing progress.

7. “Courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference” – adopt the philosophy expressed in the Serenity Prayer: God, grant me serenity to accept what I cannot change.

8. And give instead of keeping tabs about who is doing the most or making the greatest effort in your marriage and focus on what you can do.

9) Strive for balance in your own life between family, friends, work, sports, hobbies, recreation, and other interests. Then you won’t be as likely to obsess about the imperfections in your partner.

10) Reward and praise yourself often for hanging in there in a challenging situation. You deserve it!

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Marriage Communication: What the Bleep Are We Arguing Aboout?

admin — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 03:57:32 +0000

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Ever get into the middle of one of those arguments with you partner and you can’t even remember what you were fighting about?

Well there’s a great reason for why that happens.

It has to do with a trigger that goes off in your brain when you draw certain conclusions from what you are hearing.

You have to manage that trigger.

How are you going to manage it if you don’t even know it’s there?

It’s like a loaded gun and you have to unload it and then for extra measure put the safety on.

Anna and Rick used to find themselves in that spot frequently.

They felt that trigger go off and then felt they couldn’t help it, like it became inevitable that they would fight.

They’d be fighting and each wondering, why the bleep are we doing this?

And finally what the bleep are we even arguing about?

But there they were all over again.

They loved each other but there they were once again going at each other.

The relationship was deteriorating almost on a daily basis.

Until I showed them the "Refocusing" technique.

They both burst out laughing… "that’s us!" they said.

Now they really don’t argue at all.

Because they have this and the other 12 techniques, they have a brand new relationship.

Even though they’ve been together 22 years, they say it’s "like a brand new marriage."

That’s because now they can communicate.

They didn’t go to a therapist

They just used this course: Now You Can Communicate

Marriage Communication and Relationship Secrets: What the Bleep

admin — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:17:02 +0000

“Research shows that ten minutes into an argument 90% of couples can’t even remember what the argument was about” People say “We just can’t communicate, but it cuts more deeply than that…

Free Video Reveals the #1 Secret to Solving Relationship Communication Problems… Click Here

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Marriage Communication: Why Tiger Woods Can’t Win

admin — Sun, 24 Jan 2010 21:59:26 +0000

He’s a hero on the golf course because of his understanding of the need for building skills and practicing… but in marriage it’s a whole different matter. Click here for a complete free video on solving your relationship communication problems:

Dan and Peggy were in Marriage Hell…

admin — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 14:33:15 +0000

Dan and Peggy wrote

“Working with Dr. Max’s course brought our marriage back from the brink of disaster…”
“…we bickered loudly and publicly, and argued constantly. With his help, we discovered that what we bring to the relationship defines it, and we got the tools to make the relationship we truly wanted: a supportive, animated marriage where communication and intimacy flourish, rather than the doomed relationship we had and were continuing to create.
With Dr. Max’s Easy Marriage Counseling… we communicate openly, we see each other as dynamic changing beings, and we do things together again (even dancing).
By learning how to accept each other as we are rather than attempting to change one another as we used to, our marriage has dramatically and permanently improved.”
-Dan and Peggy T. Oklahoma City, OK

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