That is still focusing on "problems." 

Even if you're trying to "solve" them.

The Science of Happy Marriage states that problems beget problems.

When you focus on anything, that's what you tend to see.

When you buy a blue car, you notice there are a lot of them around.

When you buy a new pair of shoes, all of a sudden everyone's wearing them.

It's just because you noticed.

When you focus on anything you tend to block other things out.

Energy flows where the attention goes.

There is a much better way to be happy in your marriage.

It's called the Prescribed Way.

It gets you out of the "problems" mindset and moves you quickly to happiness in marriage.

It's brand new.

I took all my other 12 programs down because THIS is the answer to marriage happiness.

There's nothing else like it.

Go here

The sooner you change direction, the sooner you'll find the real answers.

To your great relationship future,

Dr. Max

She's married to Jake… but a guy at work is paying a lot of attention to her.

She says "it feels good to be noticed."

After her second child she feels "invisible" to Jake – as a woman.

Jake is great as a dad, she says, and they get along great.

She just wants so much more.

She wants to be thought of as "hot" once again by her husband.

She wondered, and I ask you, should she flirt with the guy at work?

Can that just be "innocent" – or is there always a problem with it?

Is there such a thing as an "emotional affair?"

What are your thoughts?

What I told her is the same as I say here

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

- Dr. Max

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They think that problems will just "eventually go away" or "after the kids are gone things will be better" or "If it gets too bad, I'll just leave and meet someone new."

Here's a dose of reality.

None of that is going to happen.

It's not going to get better "later."

You may leave the marriage and find someone new, but it's going to be the same situation with them.

The problems – and the solutions – are right there at home.

They are literally staring back at you in the mirror.

You think that your partner is the problem.

Wrong.  You are the problem.

Now you may think I'm wrong, but I'm not.

The problem is that you can't communicate.

So now it's time to decide whether to get your communication skills in order or…

Die unhappy and unsatisfied when you come to the end of your life.

Do you think things are tough now?

Then try getting old with no one there to comfort you.

Or feeling like no one truly understands you or cares for you.

Try living the single life.

Look, it's time to choose.  Improve your marriage or die alone.

There's really only one way to improve your relationship and that is to learn how to communicate the right way.

Anyone who says "well marriage just isn't that important to me…"  -  now you know what that means.  They have given up.

Anyone who makes a sick joke about marriage is headed for absolute solitude and a sad ending.

People in great relationships get it.  They get the rewards, and they know how sacred it is.

If you want to get it, you have to see how important marriage is and put in an effort to communicate.

Time slips by.

You have maybe one more chance, now take it.

http://www.NowYouCanCommunicate.com

Don't fall into the trap of thinking that marriage is not that important.

Just think how relieved you will feel when you see your relationship improve… because you know how to communicate better.

Ahhhhh, so much better.

That's why I created this for you

And I want you to take it for a test drive by clicking here:

http://www.NowYouCanCommunicate.com

- Dr. Max

Posted via email from Marriage Counseling, Save Your Marriage, Stop Your Divorce