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		<title>Stubborn Spouse!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 15:21:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Is your spouse &#8220;stubborn?&#8221; Whenever there is something tough to talk about, or you have a legitimate problem to talk about, does he (I&#8217;ll use &#8220;he&#8221; for simplicity here) just - fold his arms, or - look away, or - get that &#8220;out of here&#8221; look on is face, or - walk out of the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Is your spouse &#8220;stubborn?&#8221;</p>
<p>Whenever there is something tough to talk about, or you have a legitimate problem to talk about, does he (I&#8217;ll use &#8220;he&#8221; for simplicity here) just </p>
<p>- fold his arms, or<br />
- look away, or<br />
- get that &#8220;out of here&#8221; look on is face, or<br />
- walk out of the room, or<br />
- &#8220;explain away everything, or<br />
- turn it right back on you, or or or &#8230;</p>
<p>People can get creative about this</p>
<p>Of course we know this is an absolute roadblock to going any further.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s like you are driving on a road going somewhere you really need to be and you see a sign that says &#8220;bridge out ahead.&#8221;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s like you are driving on a road going somewhere you need to be and there&#8217;s a rockslide or a mudslide which stops all traffic&#8230;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s, well, frustrating as hell!</p>
<p>Listen.</p>
<p>There are answers.</p>
<p>There are ways around this &#8220;roadblock.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll be talking about some of those ways soon.</p>
<p>For right now I just wanted to say &#8220;I get it.&#8221;</p>
<p>I know you and I know what you are going through&#8230;</p>
<p>To your great relationship future,<br />
Dr. Max</p>
<p>===>>> PLEASE COMMENT ON THIS POST, I need your feedback!</p>
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