What is it like for you when you know you’ve hurt your spouse or partner?
For most of us it’s not that easy to know what to do next.
Yes obviously it’s time to say “I’m sorry.”
But it’s not that easy, is it?
You may feel that your partner has hurt you too, and wonder why it’s always you saying “I’m sorry”
Why doesn’t your partner say that HE (or she) is sorry?
And what and how do you say it if you really don’t feel it?
Isn’t every relationship problem always 50/50 responsibility?
They say that Bambi doesn’t marry Hitler, if you know what I mean.
But is that true in real life?
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Live well, do well and be well
- Dr. Max

Have you ever said, “if I only would win the lottery, my problems would be solved”?

We all have, haven’t we?

Well I’d be lying to you if I claimed to have a method to win the actual lottery.

Plus the statistics show that people who do win the lottery are almost all deeply unhappy and

broker after a short period of time… often like 18 months.

Let’s get real.

I have something for you even better.

How about an endlessly happy relationship?

How about a great marriage?

For the rest of your life… sound good?

Well, there’s a way to win that lottery.

How can you get in?

Learn how to communicate.

If you can’t communicate, you’ll never win the relationship lottery.

If you can, winning the relationship lottery is pretty easy.

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To Your Great Relationship,
Dr. Max Vogt

Most people are unaware they walk around with a whole system of beliefs about relationships.

But wait, answer these questions:

Is there one person in the world truly just right for you (a soul mate)?

Is the original passion you felt when you got together bound to fade over time?

Do you have to compromise in marriage to stay married?

Are women better at communicating their feelings than men?

See, you have answers to all these questions, don’t you?

That shows you have a belief system about marriage.

Here’s the problem.

You are surrounded with negative messages about relationships and marriage day in day out.

You are surrounded with confusing and just plain wrong messages about relationships and marriage day in day out.

Television shows, movies, commentators, music, advertising…

It’s entertaining, but it appeals to the lowest common denominator.

See people would rather think that things are too hard and that’s why they are failing.

If you think well there really aren’t any great marriages anyway, I’ve never seen any, then you are let off the hook.

Then the fact that your relationship is boring or a living hell just seems “normal.”

Then you feel well this is just the way it goes.

Then you have an excuse for either getting out or not working on your marriage.

There’s a better way.

Here’s the secret.

There is such a thing as a happy, passionate, powerful and positive marriage.

You don’t have to sit around and wait for someone to show up on a white horse.

It’s much easier than you think. Click here to find out.

She wrote me that she’s so glad it’s over.

See, all that talk about love makes her feel bad.

She’s married, but feels complete separation from Rob, her husband.

It’s not that she hates him or anything like that.

She actually likes him.

But as she says, it’s ironic.

They are in the same house, but it’s like they are strangers.

Marriage just isn’t what she hoped it would be.

She dreamed of closeness and having a soul mate.

Meanwhile Rob feels the same way.

He doesn’t know who this person is he’s married to.

They say it’s like they are roommates.

They don’t fight.

They just don’t really talk.

Yes, they function and get the kids to school and pay bills.

But there’s a void there,

Why?

Because they don’t know how to communicate.

They just now got my course, which is why I know them. They both wrote me.

They have some big positive surprises coming.

Once they know some simple skills of communication, they’ll notice thawing.

They’ll find their love again.

I’ve seen it happen over and over again because of

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This is the course that is using simple videos to change peoples’ relationships.

Dr. Max

At some time in every relationship you ask the question “should I stay in this relationship… or should I get out of it?”

EVERYBODY asks that question sooner or later.

It’s just human.

You get frustrated.

You get sad… angry… disappointed.

So many questions come up and where do you turn?

If you have ever asked yourself this question, “should I stay in this relationship or not,” then this will help you decide with heart, mind and soul. Click here

Dedicated to your relationship happiness,

Dr Max

P.S. I just got a note from a Marla (not her real name), “After hearing this recording I finally was able to make a decision. Now I know I want to stay married and have children. This was what I needed.”
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“Research shows that ten minutes into an argument 90% of couples can’t even remember what the argument was about” People say “We just can’t communicate, but it cuts more deeply than that…

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Shane in Springfield, Missouri has a problem with his wife. He says that after a long day at work, he just wants to unwind a bit. His wife, on the other hand, wants to tell him every detail of her day.

Steve, this problem is really common for married couples to have. In my book, I explain the intimacy paradox, which says that in a great marriage, you want to achieve 100% acceptance of yourself and 100% acceptance of your partner. This means accepting her behavior of telling you everything about herself when you are tired. See if you can tell her that you need to unwind a bit, and that you will listen to her during dinner. But make sure that after she does give you a bit of time to unwind, you really listen to her, and not just let your eyes glaze over. If you get into a good routine, soon you will both be enjoying these conversations.

Jared from Sacramento says that his wife wants more romance, but when he asks her what she wants, she says that it isn’t romantic if she has to tell him what to do.

Well Jared, you’re not the only person who has this problem. Whether it is romance, housework or earning money, nearly every couple has disagreements on the right amount of something in their marriage. There are many different marriage types; each one is neither better nor worse than the other. I’m sure you know what being romantic includes, but you may not know how to put romance back into your relationship if it has been missing for a while. You can’t go wrong with a warm smile, a dinner at her favorite restaurant, a love note or taking the kids out of her hair for a bit. If you listen to your wife, she’ll probably give you more than enough hints on what she likes. Just don’t shoot down what she says before you consider it.

Missy from Des Moines is worried about people finding out that her husband always lies about their children. She says that he tells their friends blatant lies, for example, inventing college degrees and leaving out their DUIs.

Missy, it is important for you to see where your husband is coming from. In my latest book, I talk about different marriage plans, or marriage blueprints. If he selected his marriage blueprint, he would probably choose the ‘Royal Family’; a type that is very concerned about their view in society and what people think of them. Give your husband a copy of my book, “You Don’t Have to Change Who You Are to Have a Good Marriage”, and read it with him together. The intimacy paradox, which says that a great marriage is possible when you accept your spouse 100% as he is, will be useful for you. Your husband may find the intimacy paradox interesting and also the exercise on how to lower his defenses. Good luck with changing your marriage, without changing yourself!

Zack from Atlanta is a newlywed whose wife gets upset at him when he looks at other women. He says: “I’m a man; I have certain urges and desires. I think that looking is ok, but touching is off limits. How can I get my wife to understand this?”

Zack, you and your wife will want to discover your marriage blueprints. It’s early into your marriage, so if you know what type of marriage you have and what each of you want; it will help you for your whole life. Your personal belief system says that looking at women is natural, while hers says that it is disrespectful to her. You want to accept her 100% for the way she is (and of course, she has to do the same for you). I think that once you understand the type of relationship that your wife wants (and the type that you want), you will be able to see each other’s prospective clearer.