Marriage Counseling News: Bringing You All the Best Marriage Counseling and Relationship Advice » Five Minutes http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com Marriage Counseling Approaches to Enhance Your Marriage | Different Approaches of Marriage Counseling Save Your Marriage and Lead to a Very Satisfying Relationship Tue, 07 Feb 2012 20:20:02 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 The importance of rapid improvement in your marriage http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/2011/03/29/the-importance-of-rapid-improvement-in-your-marriage/ http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/2011/03/29/the-importance-of-rapid-improvement-in-your-marriage/#comments Tue, 29 Mar 2011 14:36:28 +0000 Dr. Max Vogt http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/2011/03/29/the-importance-of-rapid-improvement-in-your-marriage/

Patience may be a virtue but it can also cause more problems.

Most of the time when things are going wrong in your marriage, it's bad to wait.

What happens is that small things build up and accumulate.

Maybe something that's "no big deal" right now becomes a big deal tomorrow.

You let something go, a comment about your in-laws.

Maybe a little flirtation you saw your husband have with a woman.

Maybe a parenting question.

You let it go because you don't want to fight.

But at the same time, it sticks in your craw.

But what are you supposed to do about it, fight about everything?

NO.

What you are supposed to do about it is to have a plan to deal with things NOW.

Something simple and quick and easy.

Something you understand.

Something which is not therapist gobbledegook.

But at the same time is solid professional help.

That's why I made Ten Days to Save Your Marriage.

You can use it five minutes from now.

Here's where to find it.

Bless you and yours,

- Dr. Max

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" What would you say to your spouse or intimate other? OK now don't wait, start saying it" -Dr. Max

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http://www.NowYouCanCommunicate.com “Free Video Reveals the #1 Secret for Solving Marriage Communication Problems in Only Five Minutes” http://www.nowyoucancommunicate.com now

Jenna hates "girl movies"

Hi, this is Dr. Max, marriage counselor and bestselling author.

One of my readers, Jenna,  wrote me that she can’t stand watching "chick flicks" anymore.

Used to love them.

She won’t even go out with her friends to see any

See, all that talk about love makes her feel bad.

All that yearning for love makes her sick to her stomach.

It makes her feel like she has a hole in her stomach that can’t be filled.

She is in a relationship… with the man she once felt blind love for.

Where did it go?

She’s married, but feels complete separation from Rob, her husband.

It’s not that she hates him or anything like that.

She actually likes him.

But as she says, it’s ironic.

They are in the same house, but it’s like they are strangers.

Marriage just isn’t what she hoped it would be.

She dreamed of closeness and having a soul mate.

Meanwhile Rob feels the same way.

He doesn’t know who this person is he’s married to.

They say it’s like they are roommates.

They don’t fight.

They just don’t really talk.

Yes, they function and get the kids to school and pay bills.

But there’s a void there,

Why?

Because they don’t know how to communicate.

They just now got my course, which is why I know them.  They both wrote me.

They are hopeful and they should be

They have some big positive surprises coming.

Once they know some simple skills of communication, they’ll notice thawing.

They’ll find their love again.

I’ve seen it happen over and over again because of

http://www.NowYouCanCommunicate.com

This is the course that is using simple videos to change peoples’ relationships.

Dr. Max

Go there and I’ll give you my very best technique for FREE right now

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Ever get into the middle of one of those arguments with you partner and you can’t even remember what you were fighting about?

Well there’s a great reason for why that happens.

It has to do with a trigger that goes off in your brain when you draw certain conclusions from what you are hearing.

You have to manage that trigger. 

How are you going to manage it if you don’t even know it’s there?

It’s like a loaded gun and you have to unload it and then for extra measure put the safety on.

Anna and Rick used to find themselves in that spot frequently.

They felt that trigger go off and then felt they couldn’t help it, like it became inevitable that they would fight.

They’d be fighting and each wondering, why the bleep are we doing this?

And finally what the bleep are we even arguing about?

But there they were all over again.

They loved each other but there they were once again going at each other.

The relationship was deteriorating almost on a daily basis.

Until I showed them the "Refocusing" technique.

They both burst out laughing… "that’s us!" they said.

Now they really don’t argue at all.

Because they have this and the other 12 techniques, they have a brand new relationship.

Even though they’ve been together 22 years, they say it’s "like a brand new marriage."

That’s because now they can communicate.

They didn’t go to a therapist

They just used this course:  Now You Can Communicate
 



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