Marriage Counseling News: Bringing You All the Best Marriage Counseling and Relationship Advice » Couples http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com Marriage Counseling Approaches to Enhance Your Marriage | Different Approaches of Marriage Counseling Save Your Marriage and Lead to a Very Satisfying Relationship Tue, 07 Feb 2012 03:30:02 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 Marriage Advice for 70 years of married bliss http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/2011/05/17/70-years-of-married-bliss/ http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/2011/05/17/70-years-of-married-bliss/#comments Tue, 17 May 2011 18:30:52 +0000 Dr. Max Vogt http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/2011/05/17/70-years-of-married-bliss/

Are marriages that last over 60 years something that we aren’t aware of any longer? I thought so until I read this article. ﾠSo what’s the secret to this marriage that has lasted 70 years?

As for any marriage advice, Hodson said he really doesn’t have any to share. “Gee whiz, I don’t know,” he said. “Let’s face it, there’s going to be ups and downs.” He said couples just need to work at it. It also doesn’t hurt if your spouse is handy in …

Not a man of many words Harry Hodson said “couples just need to work at it.”

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Two Indonesian couples caned for extramarital affairs in Muslim …

ACEH, INDONESIA (BNO NEWS) — Two Indonesian couples on Friday were publicly caned for having had extra marital affairs in a conservative Muslim province in Aceh, the Jakarta Globe reported. Two men and two women were accused of sex …

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If you ask one of my colleagues about marital change, they'll say it's hard.

Especially if you have a long term history of conflict or unhappiness.

They'll say it takes a long time, concentrated effort and determination.

And privately they'll tell one another that couples are impossible

Most of them would rather cozy up with individual patients.

It's much easier and less threatening that way.

But I don't blame them.

If I thought the way they do about marital happiness and change, I'd do the same.

But I don't.

I believe – and can prove from many years of documentation – that change can be easy.

If you want to be happier in your marriage, there's the hard way and the easy way.

There's the long way and the short way.

Here's the easy way.  The short cut:

- Dr. Max

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How may I help you?

I'd like to be of service to you in having a better marriage.

Have you already seen my program at 

It's my masterwork of 30 years of helping couples have great marriages.

It "goes around" all the "problem solving" solutions out there to the heart of the matter.

The true heart of the matter.

But apparently there's something wrong… for you.

You haven't gotten the program yet.

Is it the price?

Is it that you don't believe it can help you?

Is it that you want something different?  

How may I serve you better?

Please write me at 

and let me know.

I'll help in any way I can.

Sincerely,

- Dr. Max

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Everyone has them.

Old wounds from experiences you've had in your marriage.

Show me someone who is completely unscathed – who has never felt resentment, betrayal, disappointment or disloyalty in their marriage.

Show me this person and I'll show you someone who is in a hypnotic trance.

The rest of us are aware of suffering and pain… it may be very "low grade" but it's still there.

It still colors our decisions.

It still affects us.

And for many people – maybe you – if things just got "a little worse" you'd start thinking it was time to bail on the marriage.

Don't let it get that far.

It's fairly easy to turn things around with some basic skills taught by a seasoned professional.

That's why I made this for you

Go there and get immediate help before things get worse.

I get it, now let me help

-Dr. Max

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Most of the couples I see have been married many years.

Some have been married upwards of 30 years.

But they are still operating on the same child-like expectations and fantasies of a 17 year old.

When you grow up in love it's different.

I'll show you how

Dr. Max

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9 times out of 10 people who come in for marriage counseling are lying.

They aren’t really there for change – not really.

9 times out of 10 they are there only for one of these reasons:

To prove to a professional how crazy their partner is…

To get assistance in making their apouse do what they have already decided is the answe to the problems…

Because their partner blackmailed them and made them come to counseling…

To put on a show of cooperation before they drop the hammer and leave…

If you assume you can identify in each case which applies to women and which to men, think again – you are wrong.

This is “equal opportunity bullshit”

Ready to cut through it all?

The couples coach accept no b.s. And you can’t hide.

Go to the no b.s. Zone http:www.couplescoach.com

– Dr. Max
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Everyone has them.

Old wounds from experiences you've had in your marriage.

Show me someone who is completely unscathed – who has never felt resentment, betrayal, disappointment or disloyalty in their marriage.

Show me this person and I'll show you someone who is in a hypnotic trance.

The rest of us are aware of suffering and pain… it may be very "low grade" but it's still there.

It still colors our decisions.

It still affects us.

And for many people – maybe you – if things just got "a little worse" you'd start thinking it was time to bail on the marriage.

Don't let it get that far.

It's fairly easy to turn things around with some basic skills taught by a seasoned professional.

That's why I made this for you

Go there and get immediate help before things get worse.

I get it, now let me help

-Dr. Max

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What is it like for you when you know you’ve hurt your spouse or partner?
For most of us it’s not that easy to know what to do next.
Yes obviously it’s time to say “I’m sorry.”
But it’s not that easy, is it?
You may feel that your partner has hurt you too, and wonder why it’s always you saying “I’m sorry”
Why doesn’t your partner say that HE (or she) is sorry?
And what and how do you say it if you really don’t feel it?
Isn’t every relationship problem always 50/50 responsibility?
They say that Bambi doesn’t marry Hitler, if you know what I mean.
But is that true in real life?
Let me help you solve this
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Live well, do well and be well
- Dr. Max

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