Illicit affairs can be sparked or generated by the use of Facebook or other social networks. You must remember that once you have put something  online it is remembered forever, so it’s important to be even MORE careful and thoughtful in your judgement than when you are conversing live with a friend where you might be kidding around.

Also, remember that anything you say can and will be held against you in a court of law and that no one has to you you, your Miranda Rights to use it. As a matter of fact, lawyers are using social networking sites to build their cases right at this moment.

ﾠ“According to the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, 81 percent of the country’s top divorce attorneys say in the last five years, they’ve seen and used a surge of evidence that came for social networking sites.”

“What people have to say about themselves can be very significant in how you strategically plan  and work the case,” said Lawyer Wong.ﾠ

After counseling failed, Randy went straight to his divorce attorney. Seattle attorney Juliana Wong has had similar clients. “You can say goodbye to the days where you find lipstick on the color. It’s not that anymore; it’s these emails and text …

“And don’t think privacy settings will save you.”

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A lot of people think they can "slide" on their marriage.

They think that problems will just "eventually go away" or "after the kids are gone things will be better" or "If it gets too bad, I’ll just leave and meet someone new."

Here’s a dose of reality… continued

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It’s a common enough thought — I just chose the wrong person for a partner, and if given a chance, I will choose better (I hope) next time. I heard it just yesterday in the checkout stand at the grocery store,,, continued

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Is Your Marriage in Danger?

Many couples need guidance in identifying the specific problems they can tackle in improving their marriages or relationships.

You might feel that "something is wrong" or something hurts or doesn’t feel right, but you can’t exactly put your finger on it.

It can frequently be helpful to have something like a "danger signs" chart (like used in helping people diagnose cancer or other disorders). This kind of "chart" can help you pinpoint areas of pain or discomfort… and thus help know where to put your focus.

Also, you might wonder whether you should just "ignore it and it will go away…" and could use some help in identifying areas or "danger signs" that are really significant (and shouldn’t just "be ignored").  continued

 

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Jenna hates "girl movies"

Hi, this is Dr. Max, marriage counselor and bestselling author.

One of my readers, Jenna,  wrote me that she can’t stand watching "chick flicks" anymore.

Used to love them.

She won’t even go out with her friends to see any

See, all that talk about love makes her feel bad.

All that yearning for love makes her sick to her stomach.

It makes her feel like she has a hole in her stomach that can’t be filled.

She is in a relationship… with the man she once felt blind love for.

Where did it go?

She’s married, but feels complete separation from Rob, her husband.

It’s not that she hates him or anything like that.

She actually likes him.

But as she says, it’s ironic.

They are in the same house, but it’s like they are strangers.

Marriage just isn’t what she hoped it would be.

She dreamed of closeness and having a soul mate.

Meanwhile Rob feels the same way.

He doesn’t know who this person is he’s married to.

They say it’s like they are roommates.

They don’t fight.

They just don’t really talk.

Yes, they function and get the kids to school and pay bills.

But there’s a void there,

Why?

Because they don’t know how to communicate.

They just now got my course, which is why I know them.  They both wrote me.

They are hopeful and they should be

They have some big positive surprises coming.

Once they know some simple skills of communication, they’ll notice thawing.

They’ll find their love again.

I’ve seen it happen over and over again because of

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She wrote me that she’s so glad it’s over.

See, all that talk about love makes her feel bad.

She’s married, but feels complete separation from Rob, her husband.

It’s not that she hates him or anything like that.

She actually likes him.

But as she says, it’s ironic.

They are in the same house, but it’s like they are strangers.

Marriage just isn’t what she hoped it would be.

She dreamed of closeness and having a soul mate.

Meanwhile Rob feels the same way.

He doesn’t know who this person is he’s married to.

They say it’s like they are roommates.

They don’t fight.

They just don’t really talk.

Yes, they function and get the kids to school and pay bills.

But there’s a void there,

Why?

Because they don’t know how to communicate.

They just now got my course, which is why I know them. They both wrote me.

They have some big positive surprises coming.

Once they know some simple skills of communication, they’ll notice thawing.

They’ll find their love again.

I’ve seen it happen over and over again because of

http://www.NowYouCanCommunicate.com

This is the course that is using simple videos to change peoples’ relationships.

Dr. Max

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It’s certainly not just about candy and sweet cards. Here’s a whole different approach which will help your marriage a lot

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At some time in every relationship you ask the question “should I stay in this relationship… or should I get out of it?”

EVERYBODY asks that question sooner or later.

It’s just human.

You get frustrated.

You get sad… angry… disappointed.

So many questions come up and where do you turn?

If you have ever asked yourself this question, “should I stay in this relationship or not,” then this will help you decide with heart, mind and soul. Click here

Dedicated to your relationship happiness,

Dr Max

P.S. I just got a note from a Marla (not her real name), “After hearing this recording I finally was able to make a decision. Now I know I want to stay married and have children. This was what I needed.”
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Ever get into the middle of one of those arguments with you partner and you can’t even remember what you were fighting about?

Well there’s a great reason for why that happens.

It has to do with a trigger that goes off in your brain when you draw certain conclusions from what you are hearing.

You have to manage that trigger. 

How are you going to manage it if you don’t even know it’s there?

It’s like a loaded gun and you have to unload it and then for extra measure put the safety on.

Anna and Rick used to find themselves in that spot frequently.

They felt that trigger go off and then felt they couldn’t help it, like it became inevitable that they would fight.

They’d be fighting and each wondering, why the bleep are we doing this?

And finally what the bleep are we even arguing about?

But there they were all over again.

They loved each other but there they were once again going at each other.

The relationship was deteriorating almost on a daily basis.

Until I showed them the "Refocusing" technique.

They both burst out laughing… "that’s us!" they said.

Now they really don’t argue at all.

Because they have this and the other 12 techniques, they have a brand new relationship.

Even though they’ve been together 22 years, they say it’s "like a brand new marriage."

That’s because now they can communicate.

They didn’t go to a therapist

They just used this course:  Now You Can Communicate
 

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Marianne from Minneapolis writes that her boyfriend is finishing graduate school soon, but wants to establish his career before getting married. She thought that they would get married after he graduated, and she now doesn’t know if she should wait for him.

Marianne,
In my book “You Don’t Have to Change Who You Are to Have a Great Marriage” I point out to couples that to see into the future, they sometimes have to look in the past. He may not want to commit to marriage so soon because his parents got married before they had a chance to establish themselves, or for a hundred other reasons. What is important for you to realize is that you have to accept your boyfriend (and that means his decision) 100%. If you can’t do this before you are married, you may not be able to do it after you are married. It may be hard for you to wait, but rushing him (and making him change his beliefs) could cause him to resent you in the future.

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