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		<title>Well-being, health, happiness and wealth can be yours IF&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Mar 2011 15:20:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Max Vogt</dc:creator>
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<div>Research study after research study prove it.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Being happy in marriage is the best thing you can do.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>It produces more overall health.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>It produces more wealth.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>It produces a greater sense of well-being.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>It produces more internal confidence.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>It produces a sense of calm and pleasure.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Happily married people have a better life.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Stay on the path&#8230; the more you follow the Prescribed Way, the better.</div>
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<div>Get started here:</div>
<div><a href="http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com">http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com</a></div>
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<div>- Dr. Max</div>
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		<title>Health, wealth and happiness &#8211; this way</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Feb 2011 14:09:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Max Vogt</dc:creator>
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<div>Research study after research study prove it.</div>
<p />
<div>Being happy in marriage is the best thing you can do.</div>
<p />
<div>It produces more overall health.</div>
<p />
<div>It produces more wealth.</div>
<p />
<div>It produces a greater sense of well-being.</div>
<p />
<div>It produces more internal confidence.</div>
<p />
<div>It produces a sense of calm and pleasure.</div>
<p />
<div>Happily married people have a better life.</div>
<p />
<div>Yes, but how do you achieve that?</div>
<p />
<div>Especially if you have a long history of troubles?</div>
<p />
<div>Here&#39;s how you do it.</div>
<p />
<div>Thousands of people now have happy marriages who never thought they could, by</div>
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<div>- Dr. Max</div>
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		<title>128 ways to love your lover: #3</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Nov 2010 16:17:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Max Vogt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over the next few months I&#39;m giving you the keys to a very special kingdom: a place where simple acts of kindness make a huge difference in how you and your partner feel toward one another.  Here&#39;s today&#39;s: 3. Offer to cook your partner a meal that you&#39;don&#39;t much care for but they like very [...]]]></description>
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<p class="p1">Over the next few months I&#39;m giving you the keys to a very special kingdom: a place where simple acts of kindness make a huge difference in how you and your partner feel toward one another.  Here&#39;s today&#39;s:</p>
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<p class="p2">3. Offer to cook your partner a meal that you&#39;don&#39;t much care for</p>
<p class="p2">but they like very much. Don&#39;t do much cooking or have much</p>
<p class="p2"> confidence in the kitchen? It doesn&#39;t matter, actually the worse</p>
<p class="p2">you are at it, the more it will mean. <img src='http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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<p class="p1">====================</p>
<p class="p1"> God bless you and yours!</p>
<p class="p1">- Dr. Max</p>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Trust Your Spouse</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 15:45:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Max Vogt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I often hear people use the word &#34;trust&#34; in marriage, like &#34;I don&#39;t feel I can trust him anymore.&#34; It goes along with the phrase &#34;unconditional love.&#34; There are no such things in mature relationships. If you are still depending on these things to be present in your relationship, you are being a child and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><div class='posterous_autopost'>I often hear people use the word &quot;trust&quot; in marriage, like &quot;I don&#39;t feel I can trust him anymore.&quot;
<p />It goes along with the phrase &quot;unconditional love.&quot;
<p />There are no such things in mature relationships.
<p /> If you are still depending on these things to be present in your relationship, you are being a child and under a spell of fantasy.
<p />In mature relationships of ALL kinds, not only marriage, our reliance on another person is based on experience and judgment, not upon blind trust.
<p /> I suggest you use the word &quot;confidence&quot; instead of trust.
<p />Confidence can be earned and it can be lost.
<p />It helps put mature relationships into proper focus when you see that they are actually conditional and dependent upon good behavior.
<p /> Earn confidence and expect your partner to earn your confidence.
<p />Dr. Max
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