Your Questions About Sex In Marriage Books

The kid I love…sex, unprotected, marriage, and a book possibly coming alive.?

Okay…there is this guy I met online and we’ve grown SO CLOSE in such LITTLE amounts of time!! I have trust issues so I’m CAREFUL about who I let inside (to be my friend of a best friend or boyfriend status).
But anyway he says I’m driving him nuts cause he wants to see me SO much and that he wants to run away from home. (he doesn’t like it very much there) The main character in my story enters the other main character’s life in April…the exct month he was planning to run away!! Then we’d have sex when he finally gets to my house…but problem is (I’m still a virgin by the way) he tells me he has this thing where if he sexed a girl up he’s just not attracted to her anymore…
My lover also said that he didnt wanna wear condoms…that he loves me so much he wants to go it raw his first time without them on me and doesnt even care if I use birth control pills (which I am of course if he really does come DUH!) cause he’d like me to be pregnant for him!!

Of course he’d have to get checked for STD’s n stuff if we were to do this!!!

We also have plans to get married after we’re out of high school as well when we’re like in college n stuff!!

I almost wanna encourage him to run away and come see me…he said he would after I sent him a picture of me, a poem I wrote for him, a heart necklace of mine and 100 Reasons Why I Love Him letter I’ve been trying to get stamps to send! Kind of don’t know where to get them cause I need a credit card to get stamps out of the stamp machine!

It seems as if my story might actually come true after all…the main guy character finds the main female character and eventually they grow close to each other too fast and in 2 months (June) have sex and she’s pregnant with triplets the first try…then they run away…things that r bad and HORRENDOUS happen in my freakin story but everthing is my idea of a PERFECT life in the end of the book!
This seems to be coming alive…and thats scary…

Are there any Christian books on sex?

that talks about what sex should be like in a Christian marriage? How God intended it?

Because I see lovemaking and sex as a selfish act.

I mean come on do women get any pleasure when he inserts his car into her garage(where the baby comes out)?

Then again I’m a virgin and I’m used to the worldly view of sex.

What are some good Christian books on marriage/love… PLEASE READ before answering.?

If you know of any Christian or God-inspired books on my situation please recommend.

I have been married to be wonderful husband for 2 years and am starting to feel like I’m “falling out of love” with him. I know that is SO cliche and I knew going into marriage that there will always be ups and downs, but we never had a “honey moon” stage, I have never felt like a newlywed.

We saved ourselves for our wedding night and yes I had more of a sex-drive when we first got married, but it’s different now. It’s not that I don’t want to have sex with him it’s more I don’t feel as attracted to him as I did before we were married I have a hard time even thinking about kissing him, and I use to LOVE kissing!

I LOVE my husband very much, that’s not the issue, it’s the lack of physical attraction and passion. I feel like a terrible wife for thinking this way, but I can’t help it!

I’ve prayed about this for a long time and want to try out some books before I see a counselor…

Please recommend anything that would address MY SITUATION specifically, not just a general christian book on love, marriage, or sex. I have also done the Love Dare and don’t feel any different. I know trusting in God is the key but I could really use some other advice as well!

Thanks!

Why are people allowed to vote on gay marriage is the US?

I’m a pre-law student and after reading hundreds of articles/books concerning same sex marriage in the United States, I have come to the conclusion that allowing Americans to vote on the legality of same sex marriage in unconstitutional and wrong on so many levels. Interracial marriage, for example was legalized in a 1967 Supreme Court decision that deemed anti-miscegenation laws unconstitutional. Shouldn’t something like this be handled by the Supreme Court? Interracial marriages was not put on the ballots at a time where many Americans felt that is was wrong. Why is same sex marriage any different? Depriving an entire minority group of marriage benefits is inexcusable and completely ridiculous.