
Thomas asks…
Can you give me some scriptures from the Holy Bible about sex in marriage?
Complete with references? THANKS!
Please no personal comments or opinions (especially to all you athiests out there please don’t waste your time)

MarriageCounseling answers:
Paul gives these principles for marriage in 1 Corinthians 7:1-5:
“Now concerning the things of which you wrote to me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.”
He is basically saying the following:
The wife should not act as if she were still single. She now belongs to her husband and should strive to make him happy. The same holds true for the man. He’s no longer single but belongs to his wife and should strive to make her happy. When you are married, you should not overlook each other’s sexual needs, unless you both agree to do so for a while to devote yourselves to fasting and prayer. But when that time is over, you need to resume your sexual relationship lest Satan tempts one or the other of you to have sex with someone else (Clear Word Bible).
Proverbs 5:15-19 – Drink water from your own cistern, And running water from your own well. Should your fountains be dispersed abroad,
Streams of water in the streets? Let them be only your own, And not for strangers with you. Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice with the wife of your youth. As a loving deer and a graceful doe, Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; And always be enraptured with her love.
In other words, be satisfied and thankful for the wife God has blessed you with. Do not go looking outside the marriage for someone else to satisfy you. This applies to women too. Appreciate the men you are married to.
Song of Solomon is a beautiful expression of marital love.
The king is lying on his couch, enchanted by the fragrance of my perfume. My lover is like a sachet of myrrh lying between my breasts. He is like a bouquet of sweet henna blossoms from the vineyards of En-gedi. Young Man: How beautiful you are, my darling, how beautiful! Your eyes are like doves (Song of Solomon 1:12-15).

George asks…
where does the bible talk about sex before marriage?
I have some friends in high school that are sexually active and I want to give them advice and tell them what the bible says about purity but i don’t know where the verses are that talk about purity or sex outside of marriage.

MarriageCounseling answers:
Congratulations for standing for what is right!
But, be forewarned that they do NOT want to hear what you have to say,
and you may wind up with them causing you problems that it would be wise for you to avoid. That said . . .
The following articles not only share many pertinent Scriptures,
but also reason on their application as well:
“What’s Wrong With Premarital Sex?”
– What Fornication Includes
– Serious Threats
– Learning Self-Control
http://watchtower.org/e/20040722a/article_01.htm
“You Can Remain Chaste in an Immoral World”
– Thinking Ability to Protect you
– Beware of a Smooth Palate
– Too High a Price
– “Drink Water out of Your Own Cistern”
– Need for Self-Control
– “His Own Errors Will Catch the Wicked”
http://watchtower.org/e/20000715/article_01.htm
“What’s So Wrong With Telephone Sex?”
http://watchtower.org/e/20040222b/article_01.htm
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Lisa asks…
The Bible, sex before marriage, and the definition of marriage?
Hello. I have a question for anyone who has knowledge of the Bible and Gods teachings. Please don’t answer if you don’t really know the teachings of the Bible.
Ok So hear it goes
I have been with the same guy for 6 years. We have never had another bf/gf before. We started going out in high school, quickly fell in love and now 6 years later are still faithful and in love with eachother. My question is, we have had premarital sex. My problem with this is, how does the bible define marriage? We are faithful to eachother, have joint bank accounts, live together, and do everything a married couple does, but because we met at such a young age have not been married. Also getting married now is not an option because of financial issues and the fact that we will lose our healthcare if we do. In the Bible it never says you have to get married through the govt. to be considered married, in some parts of the world and in some stories of the Bible just having sex consummates a marriage. What do you think about this?
My fiance and I have recently been saved, and are now questioning our sex life and whether we should continue to have sexual relations together. Our marriage date is not until 2011 and I feel like stopping all sexual acts will hurt our relationship, but I don’t want to go against the word of God either. We are at a loss for what is right/wrong. We both believe that we should be considered married to God because we are faithful to eachother and have never slept with anyone else and never plan on it. PLEASE HELP
Sorry for such a long post, please help out if you can ![]()
Thank you for all the answers. To answer some peoples comments on losing my healthcare, I am a college student as is he, and we are both still covered by our parents. If we marry while still in school we will lose our health, dental and eye care from our parents and will have to buy our own which is not possible. We are not on welfare trust me
I am going to be a mental health therapist and he is going to be a pharmacist. Once again thank you for giving me all your opinions. God bless

MarriageCounseling answers:
Marriage = leaving home for your wife. If you guys have your own place you’re fine to keep having sex.

Mandy asks…
Bible, sex before marriage, homosexuality?
I’ve always wondered why some people say homosexuality is a sin and homosexuals will burn in hell but sex before marriage isn’t? it seems like they won’t admit it because they’re afraid.
the bible states a lot times that “if somebody has sex before marriage they shall be stoned to death”.
and one more question, is rape a sin?
by the way I’m straight but I’m just VERY curious about this

MarriageCounseling answers:
Homosexuality, rape, and sex before marriage is a sing according to the word of God.
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