February 27, 2010
How to Win the Lottery (Personal)
Have you ever said, “if I only would win the lottery, my problems would be solved”?
We all have, haven’t we?
Well I’d be lying to you if I claimed to have a method to win the actual lottery.
Plus the statistics show that people who do win the lottery are almost all deeply unhappy and
broker after a short period of time… often like 18 months.
Let’s get real.
I have something for you even better.
How about an endlessly happy relationship?
How about a great marriage?
For the rest of your life… sound good?
Well, there’s a way to win that lottery.
How can you get in?
Learn how to communicate.
If you can’t communicate, you’ll never win the relationship lottery.
If you can, winning the relationship lottery is pretty easy.
You only need 12 secret relationship communication techniques.
Here’s the relationship lottery ticket:
To Your Great Relationship,
Dr. Max Vogt
February 26, 2010
Are You Hypnotized?
Almost everyone walks around in a trance.
Look around.
See those vacant stares in the Walmart stores?
They park right in the middle of the aile.
People walking around in an daze, oblivious.
It’s the same thing in relationships.
People walking around like zombies.
Reacting to everything.
People have been hypnotized into beliefs about relationships.
Here’s a typical one.
If your parents got divorced, fought a lot, didn’t communicate, you are doomed to repeat a poor relationship.
That’s a load of donkey dump.
If you were abused by your parents, you are likely to abuse your own childen.
More donkey dump.
The only thing that determines whether you end up with a great relationship or great marriage is your mindset and your beliefs.
And after that, whether you can communicate.
You must be able to communicate the right way to have a great relationship.
I had a client I’ll call Carly.
She had been terribly abused by her parents.
Her parents had a horrible, screaming, nasty relationship.
Now she had a terrible relationship.
She was worried she was going to abuse her daughter.
Another therapist told her she was doomed to these things.
She was in a trance.
The trance was produced by the other therapist.
The other therapist poured donkey dump into Carly’s head.
Carly and I had two sessions.
On the first one I shocked her by telling her that her head was full of donkey dump and there was no reason she needed to worry about repeating her “past.”
She had to go home and think about it,
On the next session, she came and said she now felt free to have a great parenting and marriage relationship.
And her husband was relieved to hear this.
Then I told her that she didn’t need any more sessions.
All she needed was this and she didn’t need any more expensive therapy sessions.
This is the answer
http://www.NowYouCanCommunicate.com
To your great relationship,
Dr. Max
February 25, 2010
Are your relationship beliefs reality? (Excuses, excuses, excuses)
Most people are unaware they walk around with a whole system of beliefs about relationships.
But wait, answer these questions:
Is there one person in the world truly just right for you (a soul mate)?
Is the original passion you felt when you got together bound to fade over time?
Do you have to compromise in marriage to stay married?
Are women better at communicating their feelings than men?
See, you have answers to all these questions, don’t you?
That shows you have a belief system about marriage.
Here’s the problem.
You are surrounded with negative messages about relationships and marriage day in day out.
You are surrounded with confusing and just plain wrong messages about relationships and marriage day in day out.
Television shows, movies, commentators, music, advertising…
It’s entertaining, but it appeals to the lowest common denominator.
See people would rather think that things are too hard and that’s why they are failing.
If you think well there really aren’t any great marriages anyway, I’ve never seen any, then you are let off the hook.
Then the fact that your relationship is boring or a living hell just seems “normal.”
Then you feel well this is just the way it goes.
Then you have an excuse for either getting out or not working on your marriage.
There’s a better way.
Here’s the secret.
There is such a thing as a happy, passionate, powerful and positive marriage.
You don’t have to sit around and wait for someone to show up on a white horse.
It’s much easier than you think. Click here to find out.
February 24, 2010
Is Your Relationship Full of Disappointments?
If you still believe in relationships but feel hurt and skeptical, check out this email from a reader
“Dr. Max
I still love my husband, but he’s not the man I married ten years ago. He used to be fun. We talked together all the time and seemed to be always on the same wave length.
We were always touching each other and couldn’t seem to get enough of each other. Now he’s absorbed in his work and seems completely cut off and unavailable. What do I do, I’m so disappointed?
Thanks, I hope you can help, Ellyn”
You know what Ellyn? What you are describing is what every couple goes through sooner or later.
Everyone goes through the natural stage of disappointment and change. (continued)
For More Information on the 12 Secrets of Relationship Communication Click Here
February 23, 2010
If you only had five minutes to live…
Posted via email from Marriage Counseling, Save Your Marriage, Stop Your Divorce
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A lot of people think they can "slide" on their marriage.
They think that problems will just "eventually go away" or "after the kids are gone things will be better" or "If it gets too bad, I'll just leave and meet someone new." Here's a dose of reality.Posted via email from Marriage Counseling, Save Your Marriage, Stop Your Divorce
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February 22, 2010
Obama’s Health Care Plan and Your Business
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