Zack from Atlanta is a newlywed whose wife gets upset at him when he looks at other women. He says: “I’m a man; I have certain urges and desires. I think that looking is ok, but touching is off limits. How can I get my wife to understand this?”
Zack, you and your wife will want to discover your marriage blueprints. It’s early into your marriage, so if you know what type of marriage you have and what each of you want; it will help you for your whole life. Your personal belief system says that looking at women is natural, while hers says that it is disrespectful to her. You want to accept her 100% for the way she is (and of course, she has to do the same for you). I think that once you understand the type of relationship that your wife wants (and the type that you want), you will be able to see each other’s prospective clearer.
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