Comments on: A Healthy Marriage Recipe http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/2009/02/17/a-healthy-marriage-recipe/ Marriage Counseling Approaches to Enhance Your Marriage | Different Approaches of Marriage Counseling Save Your Marriage and Lead to a Very Satisfying Relationship Sun, 04 Apr 2010 15:58:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: drmax http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/2009/02/17/a-healthy-marriage-recipe/comment-page-1/#comment-966 drmax Sun, 22 Feb 2009 22:47:11 +0000 http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/?p=50#comment-966 No, if you look on <a href="http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com</a> you'll find the <br>answers to these questions. You have to address the core beliefs and <br>not behavior nor symptoms. "Same-Old" Marriage Counseling and <br>individual therapy embroil you in the same problems over and over and <br>over again. The problem with most therapy is that people are constantly <br>pushed into dealing with issues they have NO tools to deal with, using <br>the same defenses and reactions over and over again and nothing moves <br>forward. Most therapists, even fairly seasoned marriage therapists, <br>neither have the knowlege nor skills to handle directing a change, and <br>in regular therapy therapists get "co-opted" into the pathology of the <br>client, siding, having emotional reactions, getting "politically swayed" <br>by their own belief system and on and on. No, if you look on http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com you'll find the
answers to these questions. You have to address the core beliefs and
not behavior nor symptoms. “Same-Old” Marriage Counseling and
individual therapy embroil you in the same problems over and over and
over again. The problem with most therapy is that people are constantly
pushed into dealing with issues they have NO tools to deal with, using
the same defenses and reactions over and over again and nothing moves
forward. Most therapists, even fairly seasoned marriage therapists,
neither have the knowlege nor skills to handle directing a change, and
in regular therapy therapists get “co-opted” into the pathology of the
client, siding, having emotional reactions, getting “politically swayed”
by their own belief system and on and on.

]]> By: Red http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/2009/02/17/a-healthy-marriage-recipe/comment-page-1/#comment-965 Red Sun, 22 Feb 2009 22:14:13 +0000 http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/?p=50#comment-965 Do you think that both husband and wife should attend therapy individually and then together to save a marriage? If addictions are involved, should that be addressed before marriage counseling starts? Or as part of? Do you think that both husband and wife should attend therapy individually and then together to save a marriage? If addictions are involved, should that be addressed before marriage counseling starts? Or as part of?

]]> By: drmax http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/2009/02/17/a-healthy-marriage-recipe/comment-page-1/#comment-48 drmax Sun, 22 Feb 2009 17:47:11 +0000 http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/?p=50#comment-48 No, if you look on <a href="http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com</a> you'll find the <br>answers to these questions. You have to address the core beliefs and <br>not behavior nor symptoms. "Same-Old" Marriage Counseling and <br>individual therapy embroil you in the same problems over and over and <br>over again. The problem with most therapy is that people are constantly <br>pushed into dealing with issues they have NO tools to deal with, using <br>the same defenses and reactions over and over again and nothing moves <br>forward. Most therapists, even fairly seasoned marriage therapists, <br>neither have the knowlege nor skills to handle directing a change, and <br>in regular therapy therapists get "co-opted" into the pathology of the <br>client, siding, having emotional reactions, getting "politically swayed" <br>by their own belief system and on and on. No, if you look on http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com you'll find the
answers to these questions. You have to address the core beliefs and
not behavior nor symptoms. “Same-Old” Marriage Counseling and
individual therapy embroil you in the same problems over and over and
over again. The problem with most therapy is that people are constantly
pushed into dealing with issues they have NO tools to deal with, using
the same defenses and reactions over and over again and nothing moves
forward. Most therapists, even fairly seasoned marriage therapists,
neither have the knowlege nor skills to handle directing a change, and
in regular therapy therapists get “co-opted” into the pathology of the
client, siding, having emotional reactions, getting “politically swayed”
by their own belief system and on and on.

]]> By: Red http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/2009/02/17/a-healthy-marriage-recipe/comment-page-1/#comment-47 Red Sun, 22 Feb 2009 17:14:13 +0000 http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/?p=50#comment-47 Do you think that both husband and wife should attend therapy individually and then together to save a marriage? If addictions are involved, should that be addressed before marriage counseling starts? Or as part of? Do you think that both husband and wife should attend therapy individually and then together to save a marriage? If addictions are involved, should that be addressed before marriage counseling starts? Or as part of?

]]> By: drmax http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/2009/02/17/a-healthy-marriage-recipe/comment-page-1/#comment-40 drmax Wed, 18 Feb 2009 13:49:50 +0000 http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/?p=50#comment-40 Hi Richard and thanks for the comment. Two sources. My book "You Don't <br>Have to Change Who You Are To Have a Great Marriage," which is available <br>on Amazon or any bookstore, and the course at <br><a href="http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com</a> where I teach all the specifics. <br>I know several of my colleagues are developing new materials which are <br>less biased to the "usual" therapy styles, but they haven't published yet.<br>- Dr. Max Hi Richard and thanks for the comment. Two sources. My book “You Don't
Have to Change Who You Are To Have a Great Marriage,” which is available
on Amazon or any bookstore, and the course at
http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com where I teach all the specifics.
I know several of my colleagues are developing new materials which are
less biased to the “usual” therapy styles, but they haven't published yet.
- Dr. Max

]]> By: Richard Clarke http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/2009/02/17/a-healthy-marriage-recipe/comment-page-1/#comment-38 Richard Clarke Wed, 18 Feb 2009 06:23:06 +0000 http://www.marriagecounselingcafe.com/?p=50#comment-38 I like this article, I'd also be interested in finding out a little more about "but some new methods are becoming increasingly friendly to both men and women" do you have any references that I could follow? Many thanks.<br><br><a href="mailto:richard@galahadtransitions.com" rel="nofollow">richard@galahadtransitions.com</a> I like this article, I'd also be interested in finding out a little more about “but some new methods are becoming increasingly friendly to both men and women” do you have any references that I could follow? Many thanks.

richard@galahadtransitions.com

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