How to have a secret relationship?


Asker asked:


i really need help right now.
my school has just suspended a few couples because my school does not allow relationships.
me and my girlfriend are glad the teachers do not know about us.
but today our class teacher changed our places and said girls and boys shouldn’t sit together.
we are really afraid that she knows about us… we do not want counseling.i need to know how to avoid counseling and keep out relationship a secret from teachers.
its a private school… i’ve checked the rule book and it says nothing about relationships..
but people have been suspended…
i’m 13 .. in middle school..

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{ 11 comments }

Mary K October 19, 2007 at 9:22 am

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If I were in your school..I would drop out and find a real school. Oh yeahh, and take my bf with me!!

hmmmm October 20, 2007 at 11:03 pm

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OMG! where do you go to school? Do they really believe they can control that?!?

everutd October 23, 2007 at 9:31 am

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thats stupid, tell them to fuck off lol. no really it has nothing to do with them, tell your parents they will sort it out. that really is terrible what are they trying to do make you gay. lol

jennax October 23, 2007 at 10:41 pm

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Try to talk less in school and not to look at eachother to much, look at a few other girls just as much as your girlfriend however explain this to your girlfriend first so she doesn’t get upset.

Sharni October 26, 2007 at 4:15 pm

Create a video blog…instantly.

Just avoid bf and gf behaviour at school. (e.g. kissing, holding hands, etc)

No offence, but your school is tight.

shadow6668675 October 27, 2007 at 7:12 am

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if any of your guy’s friends know make sure that they dont say anything in school and at lunch just chill with her dont hold her hand hold her kiss her any of that until after school after school they can not do anything even if they see you guys because you guys are not doing anything in the school against the schools rules

Junior1544 October 28, 2007 at 2:03 am

Create a video blog…instantly.

I would suggest talking to your parents about this… If this happened when I was in school, and the parents found out, they would have gone to the board of ed and complained ‘En Mass’…

That’s the first step I’d take… It also depends on what level of education you’re at. If you’re in elementary school, the complaint would be that the school is teaching sexism, since they are separating boys and girls, they are showing that they are not equal, and if they’re not equil, the kids will eventually learn that.

If it’s at middle school or higher, then the school is preventing proper adolescent socialization…

Good luck.

jen18clay October 30, 2007 at 9:00 am

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Haha I am in a secret relationship myself. What we did was try not to hang out in school that often, tell no one about us and whenever we’re together, we try to act as normal as possible. If you want to hang out together, try to get a bunch of friends to tag along so no one would guess. Or if you’re not good at pretending, try to avoid each other in school. Watch out for your darting eyes – avoid as much eye contact as possible.

dolzwalzrus October 31, 2007 at 9:05 pm

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well man… havin a relationship does not meant you gotta act like one.. Just keep it cool in school.. What happens after school is a different ball game aites…

Chris K November 2, 2007 at 8:17 am

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what a sh*t school you go to, i go to an all boys catholic school,but theres an all girls school down the road where evryone goes before and after school

♥ David Tennant Forever ♥ November 3, 2007 at 9:42 pm

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Oh my god. Over here at my school there are so many couples and this odd boy and girl are always on the stairway making out, all these people are always holding hands too :]
Go to a real school!

Peace out
xoxo

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