thats a good question, I know other churches does the same thing as well. we were going to renew our vows years ago and found a preacher who would do it for us, after at that time 25 years of marriage the preacher wanted to counsel us before we got married again, had already a dozen kids and all. Which needless to say it never happened..I know thats not what you asked about, but thought I would share it with everyone. back to your question, to me it wouldn’t make sense, unless they have like a guide to follow I really don’t know just guessing thats all.

Never even thought about that. That;s kinda funny.

I have often wondered the same thing.

maybe to teach them what the bible says? to help them in their marriage, and make sure they know what the bible says about family/marriage etc?

or, hmmmmm, to establish a trust with the couple….to make sure the harvest of fresh young catholic boys will be sent via the priests way.

now, i’m just being naughty.

not being Catholic, I’m just not sure what they actually say…but it is possible for God to give all knowledge needed on how to go about being successfully married to someone who’s never been married…

…’cuse He’s God…

they think they are. But how can they be having never been there how can they prepare others for their journey.
Good point you get a star

How can a veterinarian work on my dog when he has never been a dog himself???

They have studied counseling and other things for a ,long, long time.Many priests have the equival;ent of a doctorate in social work.
AND Hell will freeze over before they discuss what is said at these meetings.

see thats why rabbis are supposed to get married!

BWAHAHAHAHA good point!